tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post8361603195701468097..comments2024-03-27T09:09:56.489+00:00Comments on Perfume Shrine: How to rekindle your sex life through perfumePerfumeshrinehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-23391438304489914462009-11-15T22:34:04.174+00:002009-11-15T22:34:04.174+00:00R,
now there's a very interesting thought! Yo...R,<br /><br />now there's a very interesting thought! You put it extremely well and I hadn't connected it in so simple yet lucid terms myself. This is exactly why a new scent isn't the magic weapon to rekindle one's romantic life. How could they not think about it at the fragrance companies? (but then again it wouldn't be to their advantage, would it)<br /><br />Thanks again!Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-1859772474818712862009-11-15T22:32:31.396+00:002009-11-15T22:32:31.396+00:00P,
you're absolutely right! It's all abou...P,<br /><br />you're absolutely right! It's all about confidence I'd say. What we feel gets translated as how we're seen.<br /><br />Alas, roommates is too bad...Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-36060331648152006522009-11-13T14:06:27.809+00:002009-11-13T14:06:27.809+00:00I've been thinking about this question-- I hav...I've been thinking about this question-- I have the opinion that you connect eroticism with whatever scent you were wearing when you were first in love and extremely passionate. I don't think any perfume has the power to stand in for that early feeling.<br /><br />Put another way, whatever you smelled when you were first falling in love (or having a lot of sex, however you want to put it)The Left Coast Nosehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10102549295051352579noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-66305200551464146562009-11-12T22:55:32.042+00:002009-11-12T22:55:32.042+00:00Late to the party but...what perfume does for my r...Late to the party but...what perfume does for my relationship is make <i>me</i> feel sexier, more alluring, and I find that that energy is communicated to others, giving me back a boost of same, which helps the relationship. Of course, nothing beats open-ness, and the work of staying together.<br /><br />Chris Rock, of all people, said it best IMHO: "if you're ____ing, everything's Olfactahttp://olfactarama.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-31899586282967910242009-11-11T16:37:02.316+00:002009-11-11T16:37:02.316+00:00Ida,
I always wonder why most people don't re...Ida,<br /><br />I always wonder why most people don't realise that indeed work is supposed to be going on in romantic relationships too. We work on so many aspects of our lives, why not on that most important one as well???<br />I guess the (fatal) tale of "if you find your perfect soulmate everything will click right into place" is misleading many. People are human and they're Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-117708021027664422009-11-11T16:35:09.433+00:002009-11-11T16:35:09.433+00:00T,
absolutely inspiring: especially the "kno...T,<br /><br />absolutely inspiring: especially the "knocks my husband sideways in all the right and horizontal ways!" Now there's a scent recommendation. It helps that FdO is such a magnificent scent too! (Love it dearly, even though the ones who fell madly in love with me were the bees on one occassion!!)<br />And of course your other two fragrant choices are indeed "sexy as Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-69659191054801307322009-11-11T16:32:20.731+00:002009-11-11T16:32:20.731+00:00N,
perfect analysis!
I think people generally bec...N,<br /><br />perfect analysis!<br />I think people generally become bored after some time and it's natural to a degree to not want to impress as much as when you were first flirting. Still, a little sense of mystery, a little sense of "not wanting to reveal everything" does stir the imagination, no? If a new scent or an old scent revisited help in that department, it might help a Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-27877441494002235662009-11-11T16:28:30.724+00:002009-11-11T16:28:30.724+00:00J,
trust you to take this lightly and humourously...J,<br /><br />trust you to take this lightly and humourously! Yup, should be a pretty successful one to address all those problems! LOL<br /><br />And you'd think that something as compleely free as simply banishing the pyjamas should do wonders: why not surprise your partner au naturel?!Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-63253530800027722652009-11-11T16:27:00.139+00:002009-11-11T16:27:00.139+00:00D,
you certainly have a point. However people are...D,<br /><br />you certainly have a point. However people are generally attuned to "magic pill" solutions, from obesity and alopecia to more intricate psychological issues. Seems like the "quick fix" industry would always find ways to con us, dont' you think?<br />(I am thinking of that ridiculous concept of 'the scent that makes you "look" younger': I Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-75809017318575501442009-11-11T16:25:14.023+00:002009-11-11T16:25:14.023+00:00Indes,
ah...but where do you draw the line behind ...Indes,<br />ah...but where do you draw the line behind honesty and not too much honesty? :-) There lies the rub...<br /><br />(And to bring it to full circle, how about telling them they smell bad? Would it help or alienate?)<br /><br />The vicious circle of romantic relationships!Perfumeshrinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06222733129203280662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-10418187234356223422009-11-11T12:51:48.740+00:002009-11-11T12:51:48.740+00:00Hygiene is nice ;-)
Communication, too ;-)
Do the...Hygiene is nice ;-)<br />Communication, too ;-)<br /><br />Do the WORK, people...<br />Relationships don't 'make' themselves.<br />Sillies.chayaruchamahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04889166567884475415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-13369446983637508732009-11-10T22:57:19.133+00:002009-11-10T22:57:19.133+00:00Bad smells, so far as I know, can be dealt with as...Bad smells, so far as I know, can be dealt with as a hygiene or a health issue, and no Love Potion No. 9 in my experience will ever rekindle a flame that died from a lack of communication or imagination. <br /><br />Be that as it may, I've been lucky enough to find my own sure-fire perfume winners in the seduction stakes. The ones that never - unlike not a few lovers - let me down, the ones tarleisiohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03891545310811763453noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-92008314945461310622009-11-10T18:10:40.749+00:002009-11-10T18:10:40.749+00:00No, a relationship with "communication and st...No, a relationship with "communication and stagnation" problems can't be helped by sexy perfume, or lingerie, for that matter. Communication issues require better communication to fix and stagnation issues require imagination. If a particular scent sparks someone's imagination towards a more creative sex life, then of course that is helpful in the stagnation department. Alas,Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-40661322623978756892009-11-10T17:59:56.454+00:002009-11-10T17:59:56.454+00:00"body odour, humdrum sex and boring pyjamas&q..."body odour, humdrum sex and boring pyjamas" LOL! Oh yes a sexy perfume can do so much for the love life.... I pray for these people that they find a good one :)The Daily Connoisseurhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13843902889491327636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-53344158062027635642009-11-10T15:32:44.347+00:002009-11-10T15:32:44.347+00:00Hmm.... all good scent (on the ex) ended up doing ...Hmm.... all good scent (on the ex) ended up doing in my case was to leave me with an unpleasant association with that particular scent. Personally, I think these talk show-self help book-type of fixes: make overs, new perfume, sexy clothing, etc. are only superficial and do nothing to address the underlying problems in a relationship. You've got to do the inner work, no getting around it!Rappleyeanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3792393342962796253.post-63761511709285695992009-11-10T14:25:08.670+00:002009-11-10T14:25:08.670+00:00If both partners smell good that certainly helps b...If both partners smell good that certainly helps bringing them closer (physically) but I learned from my experience that nothing helps more than honest conversation (not too honest though - when talking to men, there are some things one should better skip, their egos are fragile). :) <br />Anyway, sharing minds in my opinion brings people closer than sharing bodies. Smelling good is an added Ineshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12119611878721554991noreply@blogger.com